Lord of War
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My 2 best friends are coworkers. One I've worked with for 17 years ( 2 different jobs) and the other for 13 years. My friend of 17 years we worked side by side for 4 years and the other 13 in the same office but not side by side daily. My friend of 13 years same office for a few years but not side by side. They then moved to another office but same employer. Point is we consider each other brothers. If they call me at 3am and need me I'll be there. Doesn't matter what it is. Id put my life on the line for either one of them. They've always been there for me whenever needed. That's true brotherhood in my book.
My question is....if you haven't made friends at work, where do you make them/meet them? I say this because a majority of our lives we spend in the workplace. I have had several coworkers over the years want to "hang out" after work but unfortunately haven't taken most of them up on it because a lot of my time was spent with my other 2 friends and my wife and our dogs. I just feel like there was no room left or anything more needed as I was perfectly happy. I do feel horrible as it may make these people feel bad but there's only so much time. I may have missed out on some great relationships and fun times also.
I don't have any kids thus I think I've had more time to cultivate the above mentioned relationships so maybe that has a lot to do with it. Regardless, I made these friends at work and my wife was always fine with me spending time with them. I also have taken trips with them on many occasions. I take from the comments above that most people don't have strong relationships with coworkers. Is this because of your current family situations that you really just don't have time and room in your life or is it something else? Just curious for those that have read this far...
My question is....if you haven't made friends at work, where do you make them/meet them? I say this because a majority of our lives we spend in the workplace. I have had several coworkers over the years want to "hang out" after work but unfortunately haven't taken most of them up on it because a lot of my time was spent with my other 2 friends and my wife and our dogs. I just feel like there was no room left or anything more needed as I was perfectly happy. I do feel horrible as it may make these people feel bad but there's only so much time. I may have missed out on some great relationships and fun times also.
I don't have any kids thus I think I've had more time to cultivate the above mentioned relationships so maybe that has a lot to do with it. Regardless, I made these friends at work and my wife was always fine with me spending time with them. I also have taken trips with them on many occasions. I take from the comments above that most people don't have strong relationships with coworkers. Is this because of your current family situations that you really just don't have time and room in your life or is it something else? Just curious for those that have read this far...