Prayers for my wife

My prayers for her and your family.
 
But I would like to thank everyone again for the kind responses and prayers as it truly does mean more than most people might think. If I have been unable to answer phone calls or respond back to messages from anyone I apologize and I'm not trying to ignore you or anything else but sometimes I have to leave my phone in the patient room when my wife is having some tests done with the computer's and the magnetic equipment being sensitive to other electronics from what the doctors and tech's said. But I will respond back to everyone once I'm able to get time and when it's not going to interfere with my wife and her treatment.

If I have been short or too direct to anyone I also apologize for that too. I have just been dealing with a lot of things recently and I have 5 kids that are worried about their mom and I don't know what to say to them to make them feel better or understand what is going on, and I have been trying to not show my worry or concerns to her so she can try to stay in good spirits but it's getting harder everyday and I have only slept for 3hrs in almost 3 days now with everything going on and I still have to deal with other daily things that have to be done too. So if I come off like a asshole, I'm sorry and it's not personal and I don't mean anything about it. It's just my stress and worry and I don't mean anything by it.

I'm not trying to poor everything out on everyone and I'm sorry if I'm doing that now, but I can't vent in front of anyone here and get this off my chest with anyone here because they will see just how worried I am and I don't want it to get to my wife or kids. So I figured it was safer to just de-press on the forum for a few minutes while she was sleeping. But again thank you everyone for your thoughts and prayers and I will keep everyone updated on her improvements. God bless
 
Ampatriot said:
But again thank you everyone for your thoughts and prayers and I will keep everyone updated on her improvements. God bless
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That's what makes this a different kind of place than just a trade blanket.

Vent here, regain your strength, then go back and care for your family with renewed vigor and hope.
 
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To all: I was in the middle of a deal with the OP and he managed to finnish it despite all of this, Kudos to him.

I feel rather stupid because it did not occur to me to check if there was any post like this until now. My best wishes for a good outcome for your wife if I may.
 
I just wanted to give everyone a update on my wife and her condition. I'm with her now at the surgery center in Concord and she is about to go back to have her second and hopefully last surgery on her liver to remove the cancer spots and hopefully she will be able to start feeling better soon. She had her gallbladder removed last surgery and they biopsied the liver at that time and we got the results which required another surgery which she is having in a few minutes. So if everyone can please keep her in your prayers and thoughts for a great surgery and fast recovery I would greatly appreciate it very much. Thanks again everyone and God bless.
 
Ampatriot said:
I just wanted to give everyone a update on my wife and her condition. I'm with her now at the surgery center in Concord and she is about to go back to have her second and hopefully last surgery on her liver to remove the cancer spots and hopefully she will be able to start feeling better soon. She had her gallbladder removed last surgery and they biopsied the liver at that time and we got the results which required another surgery which she is having in a few minutes. So if everyone can please keep her in your prayers and thoughts for a great surgery and fast recovery I would greatly appreciate it very much. Thanks again everyone and God bless.
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Incoming prayers
 
Stogies said:
To all: I was in the middle of a deal with the OP and he managed to finnish it despite all of this, Kudos to him.

I feel rather stupid because it did not occur to me to check if there was any post like this until now. My best wishes for a good outcome for your wife if I may.
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that's impressive of him to keep up with it.
though if his wife is anything like mine, more than an hour or two of her being stuck in a hospital bed not being able to walk away from my stupidity usually gets her saying "isnt' there a gun store or comic shop around here you can go to?"
 
I would like to thank everyone again for the kind words and prayers for my wife and family and I wanted to let everyone know how she is doing.

She was able to come home this morning and we just got her situated and comfortable. She is going to be limited to the bed for a few days except for small amount of walking around the room and walking to the bathroom in small distances at first so she doesn't overdo it. She has 4 incisions 3in long except for one being 4in on her stomach above her belly button. The other 3 are 2 on her right side and 1 in the center of her stomach about 8in above the one on her belly button and they said her gallbladder was like a sack of large marbles with the gallstones and her liver cancer luckily was on the end of her liver and was able to be completely removed with that location. But she had a artery that was running between the gallbladder and liver and the surgeon accidentally knicked the artery but they were able to stop the bleeding fast and complete the surgery. They kept her for a few days so they can keep an eye on her so if she started bleeding again she would already be at the hospital and they can fix it fast. They also wanted to manage her pain and everything too.

But she is home now and sleeping and she will be sleeping and resting for the most part of a week or so and doing minor physical therapy to get her abdominal muscles back in healthy condition and limited walking around. But she can't lift anything over 1lb for 2 weeks until the stitches and everything is healed up so she doesn't tear anything. But she is in great spirits and happy to be home and she was very happy and moved by the response of support and prayers from everyone here on the forum when she read the messages I showed her from everyone here and she wanted me to thank everyone from her also. So from my wife "thank you everyone and God bless you all", and I concur with what she said also.
 
Windini said:
Awesome news!! Glad she's home and on the way back to health. You get credit for gokd husbanding, too.
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I just try to do the best I can and put everything I have into my family and trust in God to help me with what I can't do myself and keep praying for his guidance. I'm no different than any other husband that truly loves and cherishes his wife and kids, but I appreciate you saying that.
 
For your wife, the photo was taken at the Rose Garden at the Raleigh Little Theater several years ago.

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