I think I might be projecting too much positive energy. One of the women here just as if I'm free on the weekend. Being quite happily married and always doing my best to avoid even the appearance of impropriety, I told her that I work 7 days a week when I'm n China. And I go to the gym in my off time. Gotta to give her points for bravery though. Her English is not that great. She said she wanted to "play" with me. I understand how they speak enough to know that means going to a movie or something innocent. Not what my wife means when she says "time to play."