Maybe I can get a picture of her. Tell her my wife wants to see sombre pictures of people at the office.
Exotic?
Believe me, this one isn't exotic. But it wouldn't matter if she was. That doesn't change who I am. I have been faithful to my wife since our fist date nearly 29 years ago and or vows of Just days shy of 24 years. I'm not about to throw all that away.
In the movie "The Circle" it promotes the liberal premise that all people ate inherently bad and can only be good if they know they are being watched.Amen, brother!
For people like you and me, it's a matter of honor. WE have to live with the fact that WE sacrificed our honor, even if nobody else ever found out.
That's a sickening feeling.
Not to mention the pain and anguish it would cause the one we love.
I've always told people, if you're going to cheat on your partner, at least have the common decency to end your relationship FIRST.
As an engineer, my entire career as been in a 90% male field.Ive been to germany for business. nothing exciting happend for me. The industry was full of men so i guess i can think god i wasnt grabbed or kissed.
I was watching a cool travel show on PBS the other day and they were in southern China. Went to this place with terraced rice fields on the mountains. Incredible sights.
http://twofortheroad.com/photos-the-other-worldly-rice-terraces-of-pingan-china/
Made me >>almost<< want to go to China.
In the movie "The Circle" it promotes the liberal premise that all people ate inherently bad and can only be good if they know they are being watched.
The UK holds this view too with their surveillance society.
That's a stupid premise.
A basic, but accurate, definition of the word "integrity" is "doing the right thing, even when no one else is around to see it".
Liberals are stupid.
I just signed up for more life insurance and there was a strange twinkle in her eye.
Honestly, she is about averageish for Chinese in the looks department. I married hard 9.
I dont see the big deal in just getting a cup of coffee. So a picture is taken...and? Youre in a public place getting coffee. Or a water. Or a slice of pizza.
Big. Dang. Deal.
But you do you, brother.
No offense taken.You "don't see" a bullet coming either, but it will put you in the ground. It's better to learn from other people's experiences and mistakes than to have to learn on your own.
No offense, but could stand to learn from guys like the old sages who have posted in here. It doesn't take a lot of years as an adult to see what kind of jam he could get in.
Of course you do, you're single.No offense taken.
But I dont see anything here that seems odd to me.
Im not saying to invite her over, or go to her place, but to have coffee and actually interact with people youre working with...seems alright by me. And I do it regularly with others.
Of course you do, you're single.
This will all make more sense one day, young padwan.
For married folks at least, it's not about "right" and "wrong". It's basically about "smart" and "stupid".If I go out with a coworker, and they arent single, are they doing something wrong? (in your opinion)
People worry too much about appearances and what someone else thinks.
About what?You don't worry what your wife thinks?
About seeing you with a younger woman half a world away. Maybe she trusts you implicitly. A lot of women are insecure and might not feel so comfortable seeing their husband with another woman on a business trip.About what?
There was a very brief time that my wife couldn't comprehend spending 3 hours by myself fishing in the mouth of the Merrimack river for striped bass on a Friday night. She quickly understood that it was my decompression from being in an office cubicle surrounded by people all day. I'm naturally an introvert. Pretending not to be for 8 hours a day is draining.About seeing you with a younger woman half a world away. Maybe she trusts you implicitly. A lot of women are insecure and might not feel so comfortable seeing their husband with another woman on a business trip.
No offense taken.
But I dont see anything here that seems odd to me.
Im not saying to invite her over, or go to her place, but to have coffee and actually interact with people youre working with...seems alright by me. And I do it regularly with others.
For married folks at least, it's not about "right" and "wrong". It's basically about "smart" and "stupid".
It is about avoiding trouble, and avoiding the appearance of impropriety.
As an aside, you have no idea how many marriages have broken up simply by old flames getting reconnected 25 years later on Facebook with a "harmless" friend request. Seems innocent enough, right? Why not, right?
At some point in life you learn to recognize trouble a lot farther down the road, and steer well clear of it. Fishy has "trouble" smiling right at him half a world away at work.
I think I can sum this up. Coffee leads to hand jobs. At a minimum it leads to more coffee the next time and that leads to handjobs. It's just smart not to put yourself in that situation. Unless you're hunting said handjobs.Oh, I agree, Im sure many marriages get messed up by a reconnection...but not all of them.
Again, I dont see the harm.
Its coffee, not a handjob.
If you trust your wife, and your wife you, then I dont see an issue.
Trust is key. That and strong morals on your part.
We must be doing coffee a LOT different.I think I can sum this up. Coffee leads to hand jobs. At a minimum it leads to more coffee the next time and that leads to handjobs. It's just smart not to put yourself in that situation. Unless your hunting said handjobs.
Oh, I agree, Im sure many marriages get messed up by a reconnection...but not all of them.
Again, I dont see the harm.
Its coffee, not a handjob.
If you trust your wife, and your wife you, then I dont see an issue.
Trust is key. That and strong morals on your part.
Ok, that is coffee. How about a few hours of cocktails at a bar?
Cant say, dont drink.
but again, you have control over little CZ, just as she has control over her body too.
Speak for yourself women find me irresistible.We must be doing coffee a LOT different.
Been to coffee with many friends who were married and NOTHING happened.
Nothing will happen, either.
Plus, just because youre with someone of the opposite sex doesnt mean youre attracted to them or vice versa.
The "stalker"
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We must be doing coffee a LOT different.
Been to coffee with many friends who were married and NOTHING happened.
Nothing will happen, either.
Plus, just because youre with someone of the opposite sex doesnt mean youre attracted to them or vice versa.
As a teacher should.