Had my first job when I was 11, had my own lawn business by the time I was 13 in FLA. Started kitchen work @14 when we moved to CT. in 88' worked my way from nothing to the kitchen manager in 5 years, continued in the restaurant industry till I got married for the first time in 96' both her and I had decent jobs, her in retail, me in wholesale seafood in MASS. Bought my first house at 21 had two trucks and life was good for a bit. Marriage turned to shit, I reinvented myself again got into carpentry, stared with a framing contractor. Continued building my knowledge and experience and after working for some decent bosses for about 7 years went out on my own as an independent contractor, best year was 2006-7 grossed nearly 60k that year. The bottom fell out of construction in 08' in Vermont, so my fiance at the time and I packed up and came to NC, construction jobs weren't abundant then here either. When we got here though, we both jumped into whatever we could, she a bartender and I fell back on my kitchen experience. I started at a local bar and restaurant as a line cook and after 3 years was the executive chef. Went the construction market picked back up here in 2012 I left the brutal heat and long hours of the kitchen and jumped headlong back into carpentry, honestly did more painting than much else but the pay and hours were much better. The college thing didn't even appeal to me till 2016, and even then it was only to attempt to get into the Criminal Justice System. I was sold on the whole career thing, my body has suffered a bit from all the construction especially the framing in Vermont. So I sought out a "career". Problem was the more I learned about the way the system is the more it pushed me away. What I truly wanted was found to be out of reach because of the cost of the degrees to get the there. For myself, I'm fine with my abilities, skills, and education level and know full well that I didn't really need to do the college thing but do not regret the education I received. I may not work within the system but the education certainly gives you a way to navigate it better. There is still more than enough construction, carpentry jobs out there for the taking, not to mention I never have to hire anyone to do any work on my house.
It is my belief that as a nation we have belittled trade schools and promoted university education which is simply insanity. Trades like carpentry, electrician, plumbing, and auto mechanics can earn as much as DRs, if you have the knowledge, drive and skills. My oldest son is almost 13 and really loves mechanic work, so I'm encouraging him to stick with it and shoot for diesel mechanic via trade school once he graduates from HS. College does not have to be something to regret, nor does it have to be a waste, but parents have to be realistic with there kids too, if any of my kids want to seek out some f'n useless degree I would strongly oppose it, but if they plan to seek out something that will better there place and add life skills which are useful, I'd fully support it.