Been there, done that, it's not fun. Prayers to your wife and to you. Cancer has gone thru my family like wild fore. Lost my mother, uncle, and two sisters to it. My father had lymphoma at 88 when he passed. My soon to be ex wife had it 15 years ago, it came back last summer. Her new boyfriend got more than he bargained for. My youngest daughter is now 20, 14 years clear. It will wreak havoc on your life, you'll be strong for everyone, but you'll be forgotten by most. Keep.ypur head up,be there for your wife. If you need to talk, PM me