I started out with a single action .22lr revolver and I shot decent with it. Later on I got a striker fired trigger...... and I could stay on the target but I was all over the target!!
The short crisp trigger of the revolver combined with low recoil allowed me to get away with slapping the trigger a bit........ the striker fired pistol with a more powerful cartridge showed my flaws.
The dry firing exercises are great..... watch the sights as the trigger breaks, the coin on the barrel, watch a laser sight, etc, these are good.
All guns recoil...you just have to get over it and do what you have been practicing.... and just let it kick a little..... it's OK. Let it surprise you, don't anticipate it.
With practice you will be able to do better, just keep paying attention and thinking about what you did.
Later on you might develop a technique where you do push forward a little bit to control the recoil for faster shooting, but it takes time and practice.