It has fallen to me to administer my Mom's estate. Though we are a loving family, my sisters and I aren't always united on all that must be done. I would appreciate prayers & good thoughts for guidance as I make decisions. Thanks.
Thanks, it's not that contentious. We have legal advice, just need extra help to find - and stay on! - the path.The estate lawyer was invaluable to me.
I can recommend the one I used without hesitation.
My dad died a little over a month ago...I'm going through estate issues as well. My father's will just said that his assets should be equally divided between his 3 kids, no executor named.
Lawyer said making one an executor would streamline the process so we did paperwork to make me executor and my siblings signed it. No issues right? Well the Clerk of courts have been dragging and issues with the paperwork took 2 months to clear up. Just got it done yesterday.
Now we can do the notice to creditors in the paper and still have to wait 90 days to liquidate the assets.
Good luck.
Here we have a Renunciation of right to administer estate form that can be filed to make just one of you the executor. That's what has held me up.My dad died a little over a month ago...
He had a will, but it was super vague. It was one page and said, "everything should be split evenly 6 ways", and listed the names of the 6 people.
Then, he made me AND one of my brothers CO-executors of the will. That turned into a huge headache because all of the banks and financial institutions wanted me and my brother to come in person to sign everything together. My dad and all his stuff was in Alabama. I'm in NC, and my brother is in VA.
Every single place I called would not speak to me without also speaking to my brother at the same time... And they all said, "This is strange. Why did your father choose two executors? This would be so much easier if there were only one executor."
And, in Alabama, you have to wait 6 months for probate.
One of my sisters is listed in the will and she needs the money to pay bills... But I can't give it to her for another 5 months...
Anyway... Luckily, none of us fought over anything. And, it did bring us all closer together again.
Best of luck, OP. I'm praying for God to help you make good decisions.
With a Trust, I didn't have to do probate or anything. Just pay any outstanding bills out of it and divvy up the assets. Easy peasy.My dad died a little over a month ago...
He had a will, but it was super vague. It was one page and said, "everything should be split evenly 6 ways", and listed the names of the 6 people.
Then, he made me AND one of my brothers CO-executors of the will. That turned into a huge headache because all of the banks and financial institutions wanted me and my brother to come in person to sign everything together. My dad and all his stuff was in Alabama. I'm in NC, and my brother is in VA.
Every single place I called would not speak to me without also speaking to my brother at the same time... And they all said, "This is strange. Why did your father choose two executors? This would be so much easier if there were only one executor."
And, in Alabama, you have to wait 6 months for probate.
One of my sisters is listed in the will and she needs the money to pay bills... But I can't give it to her for another 5 months...
Anyway... Luckily, none of us fought over anything. And, it did bring us all closer together again.
Best of luck, OP. I'm praying for God to help you make good decisions.