Im sitting here, listening to an audiobook as I drink some coffee (thankfully, unlike @SpecialK , no insects involved - Debeen in HP, good stuff).
It's a book that's unique to me, a book that Im reading for the third time right now and, as mentioned, currently listening to the audiobook too.
Why am I doing both? Well, Im reading the book to my girlfriend, she has some interest after watching a tv show about the band who wrote the book.
Anyway, I never re-read books for pleasure, so this one sticks out.
But that's not why this thread is being written.
It's the timing, I guess.
Tomorrow is Father's Day, and I got to see my dad last night for a big group dinner, hopefully see him tomorrow too. But as Im listening I just heard a chapter about this guy who lost his father and he spoke about the funeral, he only said two lines "First off, he was a shitty golfer. (Goes with what others had been saying about the father being a great friend and golfer) I loved my dad and wish I knew him better."
Earlier in the book he spoke about his father, and he makes other references to him. Parents split up when he was about ten or so, dad moved to a singles community and really spent no time with (the singer) when it was his weekend.
Never really gave the kid any support, never supported his dreams, even when he was succeeding. I mean, how would you fathers feel if your kid showed you a check for $240k to go write an album? He, apparently, said, at first, it probably wasnt real and then just seemed "Eh" about it.
Anyway, they just didnt have a relationship.
I know what comes later in this book, another member and his father's relationship - equally bad, if not worse.
And as I sit here I am just THANKFUL for a loving father who supported me all these years in my ideas (if they were decent ha, trust me, if it was a bad idea he was quick to let me know!), guide me, help me, teach me.
Just to freaking be there.
The man drove me four hours to a skatepark so his kid (me) and his kids friend, who was equally as bad at skateboarding, could go to their first skatepark. Then he went and did God-knows-what in some lame-ass town of Hampstead or something for 7 hours while we were there. Got us a hotel and then we came home the next day.
Oh, we're in Florida for a vacation and the son wants to go to a hardcore show? Sure, I'll drop you off and then come back in about 3 hours and wait around for God-knows-how-long till its over (I had no idea, figured three or four hours) while my kid screams along to some crazy music with strangers.
Im very thankful, and try to express this often. Though it'll never be enough, never enough for all he did and will do.
If youre still reading and have the slightest interest in the book mentioned at the top
It's a book that's unique to me, a book that Im reading for the third time right now and, as mentioned, currently listening to the audiobook too.
Why am I doing both? Well, Im reading the book to my girlfriend, she has some interest after watching a tv show about the band who wrote the book.
Anyway, I never re-read books for pleasure, so this one sticks out.
But that's not why this thread is being written.
It's the timing, I guess.
Tomorrow is Father's Day, and I got to see my dad last night for a big group dinner, hopefully see him tomorrow too. But as Im listening I just heard a chapter about this guy who lost his father and he spoke about the funeral, he only said two lines "First off, he was a shitty golfer. (Goes with what others had been saying about the father being a great friend and golfer) I loved my dad and wish I knew him better."
Earlier in the book he spoke about his father, and he makes other references to him. Parents split up when he was about ten or so, dad moved to a singles community and really spent no time with (the singer) when it was his weekend.
Never really gave the kid any support, never supported his dreams, even when he was succeeding. I mean, how would you fathers feel if your kid showed you a check for $240k to go write an album? He, apparently, said, at first, it probably wasnt real and then just seemed "Eh" about it.
Anyway, they just didnt have a relationship.
I know what comes later in this book, another member and his father's relationship - equally bad, if not worse.
And as I sit here I am just THANKFUL for a loving father who supported me all these years in my ideas (if they were decent ha, trust me, if it was a bad idea he was quick to let me know!), guide me, help me, teach me.
Just to freaking be there.
The man drove me four hours to a skatepark so his kid (me) and his kids friend, who was equally as bad at skateboarding, could go to their first skatepark. Then he went and did God-knows-what in some lame-ass town of Hampstead or something for 7 hours while we were there. Got us a hotel and then we came home the next day.
Oh, we're in Florida for a vacation and the son wants to go to a hardcore show? Sure, I'll drop you off and then come back in about 3 hours and wait around for God-knows-how-long till its over (I had no idea, figured three or four hours) while my kid screams along to some crazy music with strangers.
Im very thankful, and try to express this often. Though it'll never be enough, never enough for all he did and will do.
If youre still reading and have the slightest interest in the book mentioned at the top
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