@Millie theres really no way possible to even describe it, and unfortunately you have to venture back to the other douchenozzle hangout to view it.
Basic rundown was my nephew fell out of a tree, and shattered his 5 vertebra in his neck, and was paralyzed from the neck down on Easter Sunday. amazing folks we have here are a huge part of how I managed to cope with the tragedy.
If you have facebook you can check it out here, and if you have more time there's a video they made as well.
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10158085199127317&id=728562316
I'll have to see if I can dig up some of the other pictures.
Funny thing about that old thread, most the people are still the same, and you can see how the place was cleansed. Especially those that had a ton of time invested. We we treated super well... as for the couple pictured earlier here, they can GFT's - they know what they've said and done.