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I should add, while I met my wife on there, there are two others that were serious relationships. One just under a year, the other just over. Just good women who dont go out, like me, and this is one of the few ways to actually meet someone. It works.

Are there bots? Yep. Scammers? Apparently.
Just be smart and recognize. I never had any issues and would recommend it to anyone.
 
backwoodsshooter said:
this.

the wife and i met on tinder, married a year later, and still together.

went on a couple dates here and there, lots of good convos, and meet ups. lots of bs and wasted time.

but in the end, i met a good woman that drove 2 hours to meet me. we enjoy a lot of the same things and she’s way smarter than me.
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😂😂😂
 
Not a clue what dating sites are like and I have no interest in them, even if I weren't married.

There are enough crazy women out there in the world just waiting to screw your life over withouc having to chum the waters for them, in my opinion.

You want to meet women? Go out and meet them, I say.
 
HMP said:
Are there bots? Yep. Scammers? Apparently.
Just be smart and recognize. I never had any issues and would recommend it to anyone.
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I loved messing with them. Especially when they would ask for money because they are stuck in a hospital in Nigeria and can’t get out until they pay the bill. But they are Americans that don’t know how to use basic English to communicate.
 
After a match and a few back and forth messages you ask to take it to text. If they aren't willing to give their phone number, start over. I had 7 girls in 7 months from okc and plenty of fish before i met my wife. Had alot of fun.
 
J R Green said:
I'm thinking this is a scam. two catfishing attempts. I'm actually texting with one right now.

I am getting some naked pics out of it though.
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"Hey the pics are awesome. My shooting buddies are diggin it and wanna know where you're from."

*texting stops*
 
Friday said:
"Hey the pics are awesome. My shooting buddies are diggin it and wanna know where you're from."

*texting stops*
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🤔 Not sure what that means.

I gave my number to one last night just to mess with her. She sent me this to hook me.
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After she realized I wasn't going to put my CC info on a link she gave up.
I asked for one more pic though.
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I'm still laughing.
 
 
J R Green said:
🤔 Not sure what that means.

I gave my number to one last night just to mess with her. She sent me this to hook me.
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After she realized I wasn't going to put my CC info on a link she gave up.
I asked for one more pic though.
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I'm still laughing.
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Keep laughing, I say!

Her thumbnail is huge...but her middle fingernail is cut short with no Lee Press-ons. Seems like she's doing plenty of diddling action with herself while she's collecting CC info.

She's a small fish in a big ocean!
 
RetiredUSNChief said:
Keep laughing, I say!

Her thumbnail is huge...but her middle fingernail is cut short with no Lee Press-ons. Seems like she's doing plenty of diddling action with herself while she's collecting CC info.

She's a small fish in a big ocean!
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The site is in some slavic country, I'm guessing they are all calling from there. They get active around midnight.

Problem is out of over a hundred people who I've messaged and returned messages too, none of my message has been opened except for the scammers.

I've had 10 people, supposedly, from all around the country that were in Rutherfordton visiting and wanted to hook up.
 
I remember when i was on there there was an unusually large number of girls saying they were in town for space camp. I thought it was some sort of code for something. Maybe we had a space camp in nc at the time. No clue.

When i first messaged my now wife, i asked her if she was here for space camp as a joke and she said- its weird you said that. Apparently lots of guys messaged her with the same thing.
 
Met my ex wife on Match. Couple semi serious relationships of 4-6 months prior to that. One was a really sweet, kinky nympho cougar who owned her own business. Being kept was fun for a while & she was an absolute doll, but when she started buying me clothes, it skeeved me out & I booked. I feel bad for breaking her heart, but it was just not meant to be.

Between wives, I hooked up with a German chick who lived in Hungary on Match over there. Married, PhD in some engineering field, spoke 7 languages. She just wanted someone intelligent to have dinner & drinks with & be her sex toy all weekend while she was in town on business. FREAK in the sack, scary smart & fun to drink with, but she was "writes incoherent messages on bathroom mirrors with lipstick crazy". Fun, but I had to ghost her before things got any weirder.

The Command Sergeant Major's wife "in an open relationship" looking for a FWB that was into some disturbingly rapey stuff scared me. Not kink shaming, but that ain't me & even if it were, roughing up a CSM's wife just has bad idea written all over it. I couldn't get her home & outta my truck fast enough.

I was hesitant to use them when they first became a thing, but when you live in a sausage fest town like the 'Ville, where fat girls can be picky, you learn to hunt a bit further afield.
 
Crazy Carl said:
The Command Sergeant Major's wife "in an open relationship" looking for a FWB that was into some disturbingly rapey stuff scared me. Not kink shaming, but that ain't me & even if it were, roughing up a CSM's wife just has bad idea written all over it. I couldn't get her home & outta my truck fast enough.
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Yeah about 15-16 years ago there was a "Rape" in Concord that the husband had set up on craigslist. Then afterwards the wife went to the police and said she had been raped. The police arrested the husband and the guy who thought they were just living out a fantasy. They both got huge bonds only to find out 4-6 months later that the wife knew and helped plan the entire thing. Lots of egg on lots of faces in law enforcement.
 
Fred said:
A breakdown of the "successes" in online dating by year here would be interesting. I think most of the positive outcomes are from many years ago. Society has changed, and the sites are designed to be much worse.
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Met my wife about 5 years ago on plenty of fish.

My sister met her husband 20 plus years ago on an AOL chat room. I remember my mom telling her she was going to get killed meeting someone from the internet in real life.

It has been happening from the beginning. You just gotta be careful as you go. Just like if you met a crazy at a bar one night.
 
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Cowboy said:
Yeah about 15-16 years ago there was a "Rape" in Concord that the husband had set up on craigslist. Then afterwards the wife went to the police and said she had been raped. The police arrested the husband and the guy who thought they were just living out a fantasy. They both got huge bonds only to find out 4-6 months later that the wife knew and helped plan the entire thing. Lots of egg on lots of faces in law enforcement.
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Oh yeah. I've been on the blotter report for some silly stuff, but no way I'm getting caught up in that kinda mess.
 
Cowboy said:
Yeah about 15-16 years ago there was a "Rape" in Concord that the husband had set up on craigslist. Then afterwards the wife went to the police and said she had been raped. The police arrested the husband and the guy who thought they were just living out a fantasy. They both got huge bonds only to find out 4-6 months later that the wife knew and helped plan the entire thing. Lots of egg on lots of faces in law enforcement.
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Shouldn't have been.

What there should have been were lots of charges for things like false claims to law enforcement for fake criminal charges followed by a court date.
 
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DrScaryGuy said:
Or... just hear me out... OR... go ahead and send money. do all the weird stuff they ask.
and keep track of it all in a basement thread we can read.
I'll pitch in $5
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I may or may not have just pissed my pants.... 😂
 
Had dinner with our new neighbors over the weekend - turns out they met on Tinder and have been married for a few years now. They didn't even live close together, but got "matched" (I don't know how Tinder works) when she was in town visiting family.
 
Supermatch said:
Had dinner with our new neighbors over the weekend - turns out they met on Tinder and have been married for a few years now. They didn't even live close together, but got "matched" (I don't know how Tinder works) when she was in town visiting family.
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The eldest of my kid cousins met his wife on Tinder while she was in nursing school. Earned a dual Master's degree in Nursing & Business Administration by the time she was 26. Blue collar/farm girl, great mom to his daughter (& they're expecting a boy next month), just an awesome chick & tons of fun.
 
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At least they actually met theirs in real life. I've yet to see one physically.
Stout said:
Rough out there these days...

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A Colorado Springs woman was arrested and is facing multiple charges for allegedly tying up a man she met on Tinder and stabbing him inside her apartment.
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Stout said:
Rough out there these days...

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Colorado Springs woman arrested for allegedly taping up and stabbing Tinder date | KRDO

A Colorado Springs woman was arrested and is facing multiple charges for allegedly tying up a man she met on Tinder and stabbing him inside her apartment.
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