Dating sites

john galt said:
Get a real haircut not a super cuts. Have a female be it daughter mom etc pick out a set or two of clothes. Eat better and walk more. Lastly get a rescue dog and hit the greenway and dog park. Volunteer to walk dogs at the shelter. It is 99% women. Target rich environment
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Trader Joe's at the most busy time....pro tip: You WANT to stand in line..
 
Grits said:
I saw a co-worker on a dating site. I asked her about it and showed her the pictures. She never signed up for it. The pictures were one she had posted on Facebook about 10 years ago. Some someone lifted her pics and made a fake account. I sent a message on that account letting them know I had found them out


Dating sites are designed to do one thing: To separate you from your money.
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I've had fake profiles made of me on multiple websites. I got some really weird questions about a few of them. I had just been dating my wife for about 4 months and one of her friends was finding them.
 
"Several customers say they paid thousands of dollars for a membership with a service called "It's Just Lunch," but ended up on dates with men who were not what they seemed."

HAHAHAHA!

So...just like men who spend buttloads of money on women on dates just to find out they weren't what they seemed!


"I said 'It took me all this time to get a date with you,' and he said, 'I have 20 dates a month, at least,'" Mindy told the I-Team. She said her date admitted to being a recruit from the company, because they apparently didn't have enough men to meet demand with paying women.

Proof this dating site was started by a man!


Serves anybody right when they shell out $3,400 on the PROMISE of 12 dates! JHFC, lady, you're a WOMAN! All a woman has to do is look at a man cross-eyed and she can get a date! Holy cow, lady...it's even IN THE NAME OF THE WEBSITE: "It's Just Lunch"

🤣 🤣 🤣
 
Stabbings, shootings, I used to think women had it rough in these situations...

fox8.com

Man drove himself to hospital with gunshot wound to the back in Fairview Park shooting

Police are investigating after they say a man was shot in his back while in his car in Fairview Park on Friday evening.
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Investigators say the victim met a female online and traveled to meet her on Grannis Road near Grannis Park. As she got into the car, an unknown male allegedly holding a handgun walked up to the victim’s door.

According to officers, when the victim started to drive away, the suspect allegedly fired multiple shots into the car and the female jumped from his car.

Witnesses reported a female left the scene with another party, according to the release.
 
Stout said:
Stabbings, shootings, I used to think women had it rough in these situations...

fox8.com

Man drove himself to hospital with gunshot wound to the back in Fairview Park shooting

Police are investigating after they say a man was shot in his back while in his car in Fairview Park on Friday evening.
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Investigators say the victim met a female online and traveled to meet her on Grannis Road near Grannis Park. As she got into the car, an unknown male allegedly holding a handgun walked up to the victim’s door.

According to officers, when the victim started to drive away, the suspect allegedly fired multiple shots into the car and the female jumped from his car.

Witnesses reported a female left the scene with another party, according to the release.
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Sounds like it was a set up.
 
Not the drink I was expecting. Things like this make me glad I'm happily married.

www.birminghammail.co.uk

Mum left horrified over what man ordered to drink on first date

The woman took to Mumsnet to share her horror at the incident on her date.
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"I've honestly never came across someone doing that in a restaurant and I just think it's really odd and really put me off him. I have tried to work out why this was such a turn off and I can't come up with a reason it just made me feel a bit yuck."
 
Stout said:
Not the drink I was expecting. Things like this make me glad I'm happily married.

www.birminghammail.co.uk

Mum left horrified over what man ordered to drink on first date

The woman took to Mumsnet to share her horror at the incident on her date.
www.birminghammail.co.uk www.birminghammail.co.uk

"I've honestly never came across someone doing that in a restaurant and I just think it's really odd and really put me off him. I have tried to work out why this was such a turn off and I can't come up with a reason it just made me feel a bit yuck."
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Reminds me of a business lunch. I’m in Las Vegas meeting with a guy that wants to provide a data networking solution for our company, little shop called Sprint, it’s easily a $100mm contract. He orders a salad, nothing unusual about that, but then he explains that he wants the lettuce washed and then dried, and further explains that if the lettuce is wet that the dressing doesn’t adhere to it. At that point I was like 15% gonna kick his company out of the running just based on the vibe. Food comes while we’re talking, a few min later he takes a good look at his salad and flags down the waitress to explain that the lettuce wasn’t sufficiently dried, bumping his company down from 85% to 60%. But that wasn’t enough, he had to raise his voice with her, 45% and then ask to speak to the manager, 25%. By the end of lunch I decided both that I was disappointed that he couldn’t prioritize and that I simply didn’t like him as a person so kicked them out.

Also reminds me of a guy I met just once. I asked a girl out in college, I’d know her casually for a few weeks, she said “no, but come out with her and some friends.” We go to a dumpy Mexican chain restaurant. Most of us get crappy margaritas, she gets a tea and her boyfriend gets a milk. We’re playing darts, it’s midnight and he’s getting milk. She dumped him a few weeks later, turns out she thought she’d gotten pregnant and was stuck with him, but by the time she figured out that she was not and dumped him I’d moved on.

Anyway, that’s what’s on my mind when I’m supposed to be reviewing year end financial projections.
 
Avoid female med students OP!

www.thegatewaypundit.com

Online Love Gone Bad: Peruvian Medical Student Lured Mexican Woman to Visit Him - Then Killed Her and Harvested Her Organs, Posting the Video on TikTok | The Gateway Pundit | by Jim Hoft

Juan Pablo Villafuerte and victim Blanca Arellano Blanca Arellano, 51, traveled to Peru to meet the love of her life, 37-year-old medical student Juan Pablo Villafuerte.
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Online Love Gone Bad: Peruvian Medical Student Lured Mexican Woman to Visit Him – Then Killed Her and Harvested Her Organs, Posting the Video on TikTok​

By Jim Hoft
Published November 26, 2022
 
Stout said:
Avoid female med students OP!

www.thegatewaypundit.com

Online Love Gone Bad: Peruvian Medical Student Lured Mexican Woman to Visit Him - Then Killed Her and Harvested Her Organs, Posting the Video on TikTok | The Gateway Pundit | by Jim Hoft

Juan Pablo Villafuerte and victim Blanca Arellano Blanca Arellano, 51, traveled to Peru to meet the love of her life, 37-year-old medical student Juan Pablo Villafuerte.
www.thegatewaypundit.com www.thegatewaypundit.com

Online Love Gone Bad: Peruvian Medical Student Lured Mexican Woman to Visit Him – Then Killed Her and Harvested Her Organs, Posting the Video on TikTok​

By Jim Hoft
Published November 26, 2022
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This med student was male.

Read a few comments, reminds me just how extraordinarily stupid most readers of the gateway pundit are.
 
barf said:
This sounds awful. Sign me up, I guess.
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I met my wife online 6 years ago. Here's what learned in my 3 years of online dating.

-Be honest but not grumpy.

-Be willing to talk to lots of people through messaging without the expectation of a date.

-Be willing to go on dates doing things you normally wouldn't do.

- do not talk about ex! It sounds like common sense, but if you've been with yours for any length of time, it's hard not to since she's been involved in most things you've done for a good while. It will slip out in conversation. Be conscious of it and try not to do it.

I would start talking with several girls At once. Sometimes 2 messages a week, others were 4 messages a day. (Gotta remember, they are getting hundreds of hits daily to sort through. Too fast a response could mean clingy, crazy, or has nothing going on in their life).

After about 2 weeks(or less sometimes) of messaging, THEY would say we should hang out. I always let them decide when we should meet In person.

I ALWAYS invited them to my place even if i had to pick them up at theirs.

If they feel comfortable enough to ask you to hang out and come to your house on the first date guess what....the odds are in your favor my friend.

That formula worked for me 100% of the time if it got to that point. Sometimes it didn't get to that point and that's ok. That's why you message with multiple people at once.

I can't say there weren't some girls that probably belonged in the loony bin, but every girl that made it to my house went all the way.

after that is when they really let out the strange behavior. Some wanted to move in and have a family the next week while others didn't want to talk to me anymore. Just a- "thanks i needed that" kinda deal.

I actually had a lot of fun and was luckier in those 3 years than the decade before it. Sometimes 2-3 girls a week. It was a ride man!

Good luck barf, it's an interesting world out there and depending on what sites you join, you're about to find out all about it. Enjoy the ride.
 
Mr. Bggs said:
I met my wife online 6 years ago. Here's what learned in my 3 years of online dating.

-Be honest but not grumpy.

-Be willing to talk to lots of people through messaging without the expectation of a date.

-Be willing to go on dates doing things you normally wouldn't do.

- do not talk about ex! It sounds like common sense, but if you've been with yours for any length of time, it's hard not to since she's been involved in most things you've done for a good while. It will slip out in conversation. Be conscious of it and try not to do it.

I would start talking with several girls At once. Sometimes 2 messages a week, others were 4 messages a day. (Gotta remember, they are getting hundreds of hits daily to sort through. Too fast a response could mean clingy, crazy, or has nothing going on in their life).

After about 2 weeks(or less sometimes) of messaging, THEY would say we should hang out. I always let them decide when we should meet In person.

I ALWAYS invited them to my place even if i had to pick them up at theirs.

If they feel comfortable enough to ask you to hang out and come to your house on the first date guess what....the odds are in your favor my friend.

That formula worked for me 100% of the time if it got to that point. Sometimes it didn't get to that point and that's ok. That's why you message with multiple people at once.

I can't say there weren't some girls that probably belonged in the loony bin, but every girl that made it to my house went all the way.

after that is when they really let out the strange behavior. Some wanted to move in and have a family the next week while others didn't want to talk to me anymore. Just a- "thanks i needed that" kinda deal.

I actually had a lot of fun and was luckier in those 3 years than the decade before it. Sometimes 2-3 girls a week. It was a ride man!

Good luck barf, it's an interesting world out there and depending on what sites you join, you're about to find out all about it. Enjoy the ride.
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Thanks for the detailed write up! I’ve never done online dating, back in my day I just met women at work or at the bar or through a friend. So far my first day on Bumble the vast majority identify as liberal, so they are non starters.

Have one match so far who doesn’t look like an Asheville hippy, so there’s that. Just gonna give it time I guess!

Thanks again 🙏🏻
 
barf said:
Thanks for the detailed write up! I’ve never done online dating, back in my day I just met women at work or at the bar or through a friend. So far my first day on Bumble the vast majority identify as liberal, so they are non starters.

Have one match so far who doesn’t look like an Asheville hippy, so there’s that. Just gonna give it time I guess!

Thanks again 🙏🏻
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I had a bumpy road at first. Decided to change my profile to just looking for friends to chat with. A nice girl started talking to me and she was very upfront about not being interested.

Through our talking she helped me redo my profile to not seem so bitter(Which i didn't even know i was). After that it was off to the races.

If you stick with it and aren't in a hurry or just trying to get laid, i bet something will happen for you.

I had never done the online thing either but it's honestly easier to text back and forth while your living your life and then if you do decide to meet up, it's like you already know the person somewhat.

Best of luck buddy. I'm rooting for ya!
 
Stout said:
Not the drink I was expecting. Things like this make me glad I'm happily married.

www.birminghammail.co.uk

Mum left horrified over what man ordered to drink on first date

The woman took to Mumsnet to share her horror at the incident on her date.
www.birminghammail.co.uk www.birminghammail.co.uk

"I've honestly never came across someone doing that in a restaurant and I just think it's really odd and really put me off him. I have tried to work out why this was such a turn off and I can't come up with a reason it just made me feel a bit yuck."
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She was put off...by her date drinking milk.

Holy. Cr*p.

Personally, I think the guy made out on this one and missed a real psycho in the making. good for him.
 
Mr. Bggs said:
I met my wife online 6 years ago. Here's what learned in my 3 years of online dating.

-Be honest but not grumpy.

-Be willing to talk to lots of people through messaging without the expectation of a date.

-Be willing to go on dates doing things you normally wouldn't do.

- do not talk about ex! It sounds like common sense, but if you've been with yours for any length of time, it's hard not to since she's been involved in most things you've done for a good while. It will slip out in conversation. Be conscious of it and try not to do it.

I would start talking with several girls At once. Sometimes 2 messages a week, others were 4 messages a day. (Gotta remember, they are getting hundreds of hits daily to sort through. Too fast a response could mean clingy, crazy, or has nothing going on in their life).

After about 2 weeks(or less sometimes) of messaging, THEY would say we should hang out. I always let them decide when we should meet In person.

I ALWAYS invited them to my place even if i had to pick them up at theirs.

If they feel comfortable enough to ask you to hang out and come to your house on the first date guess what....the odds are in your favor my friend.

That formula worked for me 100% of the time if it got to that point. Sometimes it didn't get to that point and that's ok. That's why you message with multiple people at once.

I can't say there weren't some girls that probably belonged in the loony bin, but every girl that made it to my house went all the way.

after that is when they really let out the strange behavior. Some wanted to move in and have a family the next week while others didn't want to talk to me anymore. Just a- "thanks i needed that" kinda deal.

I actually had a lot of fun and was luckier in those 3 years than the decade before it. Sometimes 2-3 girls a week. It was a ride man!

Good luck barf, it's an interesting world out there and depending on what sites you join, you're about to find out all about it. Enjoy the ride.
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What sites/apps did you have best of luck with? I think that honestly plays a part as well.
 
I had the best luck on okcupid. I've read lots of guys that said that place was a big dud but my experience was WAY different.

Plenty of fish is where the crazies go but you can have lots of fun there. Some decent ones there too, but watch out!

I can't remember the 3rd place but it wasn't bumble, Christian mingle, or that farmer one. I know It wasn't as great as the other 2.

My memory sucks but i found that once i reworked my profile and made myself open to just having conversations, i met alot of people and then things pick up from there. Being in a hurry is the worst thing you can do. The girls have so many choices they can move right past you and not blink an eye. If you start having real honest conversations, things will click and the rest is history.... at least that was my experience. Best of luck to anybody giving it a shot. It can be really fun or a big gut punch on any given day. Stay positive.
 
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Geezer said:
Between marriages, I had a long time friend that owned a beauty shop. Back then, she cut my hair. She was always trying to fix me up with one of her customers. With her there was an endless supply of women. Most of them were nuttier than squirrel droppings. I did go out with a couple of them but, they were looking for a husband and I wasn't quite ready to be a husband again. If you have a friend that's a beautician or if you know a beautician, ask them if they know any ladies looking for a friend.
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My barber in Sanford is the type that won't let your hair get shorter without talking your ear off, she's currently looking for women who fall into my strict standards:
- Cannot be addicted to meth
- Must have a pulse
- Must be above 18 and below 80 (I'm 26)

Somehow none of the resulting suggestions have worked out. I've historically been using Hinge, gotten the most normal and conversational dates out of that app, but no long term relationships. Had two long term relationships come out of Tinder but I wouldn't necessarily call either of those two normal and conversational experiences.
 
45AARP said:
My barber in Sanford is the type that won't let your hair get shorter without talking your ear off, she's currently looking for women who fall into my strict standards:
- Cannot be addicted to meth
- Must have a pulse
- Must be above 18 and below 80 (I'm 26)

Somehow none of the resulting suggestions have worked out. I've historically been using Hinge, gotten the most normal and conversational dates out of that app, but no long term relationships. Had two long term relationships come out of Tinder but I wouldn't necessarily call either of those two normal and conversational experiences.
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I've had decent luck with hinge. The hardest part was always getting them to meet for me.
I'm the same age as you, dating someone I was acquaintances with in HS and reconnected with on hinge. My college roommate is in the same boat for standards now too 😂
I personally think getting someone our age who's a normal female to help make/refine your profile helps a lot. I can arrange someone to look at it if you DM me.
Tinder around Raleigh before I moved was almost unusable. Bumble was great when you first made an account but once you got past the first week you had to really lower your standards to swipe right on anyone.
 
Desron23 said:
I've had decent luck with hinge. The hardest part was always getting them to meet for me.
I'm the same age as you, dating someone I was acquaintances with in HS and reconnected with on hinge. My college roommate is in the same boat for standards now too 😂
I personally think getting someone our age who's a normal female to help make/refine your profile helps a lot. I can arrange someone to look at it if you DM me.
Tinder around Raleigh before I moved was almost unusable. Bumble was great when you first made an account but once you got past the first week you had to really lower your standards to swipe right on anyone.
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Landing the date on Hinge was never the issue for me, it was frequently date #3 where either me or them decided that it wasn't worth a date #4.
Trying out meeting people in real life for once, haven't organically run into a dating partner for...5 years or so?
 
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